Back in 1999 we were looking
forward to the new millennium with both fear and optimism!
Fear was because we were told
that when the clocks struck midnight (00:00) on January 1st, 2000
all electronics were going to stop working, the electrical grids would shut
down, no access to bank accounts (account info would be lost) transportation
would fail, nothing would work because the internal clocks couldn’t comprehend
the date and time being al zeros, 00:00 hours the year 00. If none of that happened there was still the
fear of the unknown, but that fear of the unknown was also exciting and a cause
for optimism.
Optimism because if the world did not shut
down technology was progressing and what was once just a dream would become a
possibility. Back in 1999 most people
used the internet for email communications, AOL was what people used for
emails, cell phones were primarily just for calls and there were no “smartphones”. We saw the future as helping enhance our
ability to perform work, to enhance our humanity and better enable our ability
to help others. We saw so many possibilities
to make life easier and more productive, technology was going to be a time
savor for us.
Well, we survived New Years Eve of
December 31, 1999, the world did not crash, and we went on about our lives,
technological changes continued as well.
We could look up information via the internet instead of the set of Encyclopedias
your mother bought for you as a child or by cashing in her Green Stamps (anyone
remember going to the Green Stamp store).
You no longer had to go to the library to do research of to get a book
to read, you could download an “E-book” to read. Then came Facebook, Myspace, Twitter, Parler
and other social media platforms to keep in touch with one another or reconnect
with long lost friends. You no longer
needed to write a letter or post card, buy stamps and go to the post office,
all you do now is a few clicks on a keyboard to send an email or text message
(before this millennium the only message you received on your phone was a voice
mail if you had the latest mobile phone).
It used to be that on payday you
had to go to the bank to cash your paycheck, if the bank was closed you had to
go to the grocery store where you had check cashing privileges to get
cash. Now you just go to the ATM to get
cash, use direct deposit for your paycheck, checks have gone the way of the
telephone, both are obsolete and nearly nonexistent anymore. Life has certainly gotten easier for
financial transactions, you can shop online for almost anything including
groceries, life has got easier but has the cost been worth it?
A part of the cost has been a
lack of personal face to face interaction with others. Oral communications is a skill, carrying on a
conversation and being able to see the other person’s reaction, their body
language so you can immediately know if they understood what you said or it’s
meaning. It seems that we have also lost
our ability to interact with others especially if they have a different point
of view. It used to be that if someone
had a different opinion, we could discuss our differences, we could engage one
another and learn why each had the opinion they did, if someone had a different
opinion we could still get along. We used
to engage each other in a dialog and learn why they thought what they did
without hatred. We used to be able to
speak with one another not at one another but not anymore.
Now if someone does not agree
with you, they do not have a different opinion, they are the enemy, they are not
worth talking to. Now with social media
we do not have to think before expounding on our point of view, worse than that
we seem to believe that if we post something social media we can’t or shouldn’t
be held accountable for our actions.
By engaging someone in a
conversation you got to develop a rapport, learn about each other and in many
cases even though you may be a member of a different political party or
religion you became friends. We used to judge
and accept people based on the total person but that seems to have gone the way
of the home phone. We used to believe
that all people should be treated the same, should be able to interact with
others. We used to be proud of our ethnicity,
our heritage as well as that of others.
But in recent years we have seen students on college campuses demand
that others be excluded, although they did not use the specific wording and may
not have realized it these students have been expressing that they prefer
separate but equal. We used to praise
and admire someone that achieved their goal but often now we demand to know why
him or her! An achievement by another
used to be a motivator, an incentive to work a little harder to achieve your
goal, not seen as a reason to dislike or hate another.
I guess what I’m really asking is;
was our compassion, our humanity, our being a good neighbor really a
justifiable price for the technological advances this millennium has produced
so far? I for one don’t think so! Hopefully instead of being the full price we must
pay for technology; these virtues will just be a deposit that we get back at
some point. So far when you look at
history every time there has been an advancement in technology it has brought
out some bad traits in society but after
society has become accustomed to the technological changes it reverts back to
those positive traits. I am hoping that
just as in the past this is a phase and that history will repeat itself.
That’s My Opinion, What’s Yours
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